Chapter 647

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647 Share the pain and pleasure together
Cai Xiaolian looked at Gu Xin with interest, waiting for her answer.
“Big sister, I have some thoughts. because you told me how to love someone. I have observed a few couples in my family and I have a different opinion.” Gu Xin looked at Gu Nian. I think that love should be mutual. It’s not one-sided. While I love him and think of him for his own good, he must also love me and think of me for my own good! Otherwise, why would I love him? To maintain a relationship, one person’s hard work was not enough. Two people had to work together! it’s worth it for each other. if it’s not worth it, it’s a bad relationship. you have to stop the loss in time and prevent yourself from getting hurt.”
“Just like Grandpa and Grandma, just like big Uncle and big aunt, just like father and mother, just like third aunt and third uncle, they are all mutual, no one is single. It could only be said that whoever loved him more. for people like grandpa and grandma, who had always helped each other, their love was equal. Just like eldest uncle and eldest aunt’s love, in my opinion, eldest aunt loves eldest uncle more. For example, father, mother, third aunt, and third uncle loved mother and third aunt more, because they couldn’t bear to see mother and third aunt suffer even a little bit. It’s different for uncle. Unless Auntie is injured and bullied outside, uncle is the one who bullies her the most at home.”
Gu Hui and Gu Nian looked at Gu Xin, deep in thought. This little girl was thinking so much? The two older sisters were so embarrassed. They had never thought about this kind of life problem.
The little people inside Gu SI’s mind were already having a party. Sister Xinxin was so amazing.
In the past, I only thought that my sister and sister niannian were amazing. Now, sister Xinxin is amazing too. I have to work hard!
Cai Xiaolian smiled helplessly and didn’t refute Gu Xin’s claim that her father loved her mother more.
She smiled and said to the four little girls, ” “when i was a girl, i heard a poem about love. since you’ve all been studying and learning how to read, i’ll read it to you too! i really like it. ”
“If I love you, I won’t be like a climbing flower, using your high branches to show off. If I love you, I won’t be like an infatuated bird, repeating monotonous songs for the Grassi world. You have your copper and iron branches, like a knife, like a sword, and like a halberd. i have my red flowers, like a heavy sigh, but also like a brave torch. We share the cold waves, the wind, the Thunder, and the lightning. We share the mist, the mist, and the rainbow. It’s as if we’ll be separated forever, but we’ll be together for life.”
Cai Xiaolian read ” to the oak ” to her daughters. It was her favorite contemporary poem, and it was also the poem she remembered the most.
gu nian had learned this poem before. however, as a science student, she was really not interested in poetry. she was not even as good as her nephew.
As Cai Xiaolian read the poem, Gu Nian felt that it was a little different from when she was in school. However, she could not tell what the difference was.
If she were to take the subject of feelings, she would probably fail all the time!
After a while, Gu Xin’s eyes lit up, ” “Mother, I somewhat understand! Although the format of this poem is different from what father usually teaches us, I can still understand it. This poem compared kapok and oak to a woman and a man. This poem expressed the poet’s point of view on love. She believed that a woman was not an existence that depended on a man. You are a tree, then I must also be a tall and straight tree like you. You stand, and I must also stand, to stand equally between the heaven and earth. we’ll share the pain together and enjoy the joy together.”